Week 10, Chapter 13: The King Who Had It All

Week 10, Chapter 13: The King Who Had It All

Associated Scripture: 1 Kings 1-8; 10-11; 2 Chronicles 5-7; Proverbs 1-3; 6; 20-21

This session is the first session I taught.  My very first time leading a study group…sigh.  To be honest, I don’t remember a THING.  It was a great study session; thank you ladies. 

I made Michelle (sorry girl—the vomit was a-building up)  open in prayer and I closed and I felt as though my prayer was lame.  Ok—this is an honest feeling-nothing wrong with that.  But deep down, I felt great.  I felt as though I mumbled through this session but God was with me.  He was there; thank you God.  It wasn’t as bad as I thought.  To be honest, I was so worried about presenting that I didn’t write a single note.  Feel free to add any of this blog discussion via the comment below.  To honor the discussion questions in the book, I wanted to share with you a site that I found, after I realized I took no notes as the leader.  It is a great read to the questions.  But first, let’s watch a review video of this week’s chapter 13: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVGeWzMA1-8

Discussion Questions:

1.       Why was Solomon’s request for wisdom and discernment so pleasing to the Lord?

2.       How is wisdom different from mere knowledge and intellect?

3.       Why is it vital to become wise?

4.       What can you do to gain more wisdom?

5.       How did pride and lust contribute to Solomon’s fall?

6.       What can you do to guard yourself against these sins?

The answers are above.  Let’s read this week’s study via another church… http://www.dnbc.co.za/uploads/1/0/7/3/10734267/the_story_ch_13.pdf

Video Discussion:

Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-I1nX28MEQ

1)        Our culture can be a little like the kettle and we can become the frogs plopped into the water..if we are not careful.  Name some examples of dangerous and incremental changes happening around us that we can fail to notice. What can we do to wake up, notice and resist these changes?

For me, let’s look at the schools.  Public schools no longer are the same as when I was in school.  WE are so careful not to offend anyone.  I never thought of school as offensive.  I specifically remember learning evolution and not being offended…Evolution is just that; growth.  Heck, I have certainly evolved as a Christian woman…with that said, I also remember learning big bang and the biblical versions too.  I was in public school.  You know, where you once got punished for saying ugly things and feared the principal.  The place where I learned to be a person who was forgiving rather than expecting…I wish society would notice that some of the very proverbs in the bible are natural good vs evil; right vs. wrong and just take a stand.  Yeah, that may mean a paddle in the hallway but heck, if you were good you didn’t have to receive a paddling.  Soap box. 

2)      As David neared the end of his life, he gave a charge to his son Solomon.  What were his specific exhortations and how do these words reflect what David and learned from his personal choices in life?

Do not idolize any other Gods.  The importance he placed on his many wives were considered his “other Gods” which his focus away from  the one and only God.    As I remember this, I think personally back to the same thought.  As soon as I worry about something that really I have spent too much time worrying on—I have just idolized that “thing.”  I need to place my worry in God’s hands and things will get better.

3)      God appeared to Solomon in a dream and engaged him in the “If you could have anything you want” conversation.  What did Solomon ask for and what did he refrain from asking for?  What can we learn about prayer from this account in Solomon’s life?  Wow is all I can say.  He asked for wisdom.  He did not ask for money.  He did not ask for materialistic things.  He asked for things that would glorify God through him.  What a great and self-less request.

4)      As Solomon’s wisdom grew, the Holy Spirit inspired him to write and collect wise sayings.  According to Proverbs 1: 1-7, what is the purpose and value of the proverbs and why are they needed just as much today as they were in ancient times?  If you want to lead a disciplined and successful life—follow these proverbs.  Enough said.

5)      The Story includes many examples of proverbs.  Respond to one of the questions below about this collection of wise sayings:

a.       What do they teach us about fearing God?

b.      What do they teach us about God-honoring relationships?

c.       What do they teach us about how to handle our finances wisely?

d.      What do they teach us about how we use our words?

You can look up each one.  For this post, I decided to mention the “God Fearing” by selecting Proverbs 4:10 and 11: My child, listen to me and do as I say, and you will have a long, good life.  I will teach you wisdom’s ways and lead you in straight paths.”  This is the same as with our own children.  We, as parents, give them the wisdom they will need to do as we say as parents and be: parent-fearing.  If you mind me, all will be well because I am your teaching and all you have to do is as I say.  God is the same.  He has his book to tell us how to be God fearing and if we mind—we will be most fruitful.

6)      As the temple was dedicated, Solomon prayed and spoke to the people of Israel.  What do his words teach us about God?  What does he ask for himself and for the people and how can his prayer inform the way we speak to God? This prayer is below.  You will know the answer when you read it yourself.  Read the passage.  Answer the question.

Solomon’s Prayer of Dedication

22 Then Solomon stood before the altar of the Lord in front of the whole assembly of Israel, spread out his hands toward heaven 23 and said:

“Lord, the God of Israel, there is no God like you in heaven above or on earth below—you who keep your covenant of love with your servants who continue wholeheartedly in your way. 24 You have kept your promise to your servant David my father; with your mouth you have promised and with your hand you have fulfilled it—as it is today.

25 “Now Lord, the God of Israel, keep for your servant David my father the promises you made to him when you said, ‘You shall never fail to have a successor to sit before me on the throne of Israel, if only your descendants are careful in all they do to walk before me faithfully as you have done.’ 26 And now, God of Israel, let your word that you promised your servant David my father come true.

27 “But will God really dwell on earth? The heavens, even the highest heaven, cannot contain you. How much less this temple I have built! 28 Yet give attention to your servant’s prayer and his plea for mercy, Lord my God. Hear the cry and the prayer that your servant is praying in your presence this day. 29 May your eyes be open toward this temple night and day, this place of which you said, ‘My Name shall be there,’ so that you will hear the prayer your servant prays toward this place. 30 Hear the supplication of your servant and of your people Israel when they pray toward this place. Hear from heaven, your dwelling place, and when you hear, forgive.

31 “When anyone wrongs their neighbor and is required to take an oath and they come and swear the oath before your altar in this temple, 32 then hear from heaven and act. Judge between your servants, condemning the guilty by bringing down on their heads what they have done, and vindicating the innocent by treating them in accordance with their innocence.

33 “When your people Israel have been defeated by an enemy because they have sinned against you, and when they turn back to you and give praise to your name, praying and making supplication to you in this temple, 34 then hear from heaven and forgive the sin of your people Israel and bring them back to the land you gave to their ancestors.

35 “When the heavens are shut up and there is no rain because your people have sinned against you, and when they pray toward this place and give praise to your name and turn from their sin because you have afflicted them, 36 then hear from heaven and forgive the sin of your servants, your people Israel. Teach them the right way to live, and send rain on the land you gave your people for an inheritance.

37 “When famine or plague comes to the land, or blight or mildew, locusts or grasshoppers, or when an enemy besieges them in any of their cities, whatever disaster or disease may come, 38 and when a prayer or plea is made by anyone among your people Israel—being aware of the afflictions of their own hearts, and spreading out their hands toward this temple— 39 then hear from heaven, your dwelling place. Forgive and act; deal with everyone according to all they do, since you know their hearts (for you alone know every human heart), 40 so that they will fear you all the time they live in the land you gave our ancestors.

41 “As for the foreigner who does not belong to your people Israel but has come from a distant land because of your name— 42 for they will hear of your great name and your mighty hand and your outstretched arm—when they come and pray toward this temple, 43 then hear from heaven, your dwelling place. Do whatever the foreigner asks of you, so that all the peoples of the earth may know your name and fear you, as do your own people Israel, and may know that this house I have built bears your Name.

44 “When your people go to war against their enemies, wherever you send them, and when they pray to the Lord toward the city you have chosen and the temple I have built for your Name, 45 then hear from heaven their prayer and their plea, and uphold their cause.

46 “When they sin against you—for there is no one who does not sin—and you become angry with them and give them over to their enemies, who take them captive to their own lands, far away or near; 47 and if they have a change of heart in the land where they are held captive, and repent and plead with you in the land of their captors and say, ‘We have sinned, we have done wrong, we have acted wickedly’; 48 and if they turn back to you with all their heart and soul in the land of their enemies who took them captive, and pray to you toward the land you gave their ancestors, toward the city you have chosen and the temple I have built for your Name; 49 then from heaven, your dwelling place, hear their prayer and their plea, and uphold their cause. 50 And forgive your people, who have sinned against you; forgive all the offenses they have committed against you, and cause their captors to show them mercy; 51 for they are your people and your inheritance, whom you brought out of Egypt, out of that iron-smelting furnace.

52 “May your eyes be open to your servant’s plea and to the plea of your people Israel, and may you listen to them whenever they cry out to you. 53 For you singled them out from all the nations of the world to be your own inheritance, just as you declared through your servant Moses when you, Sovereign Lord, brought our ancestors out of Egypt.”

54 When Solomon had finished all these prayers and supplications to the Lord, he rose from before the altar of the Lord, where he had been kneeling with his hands spread out toward heaven. 55 He stood and blessed the whole assembly of Israel in a loud voice, saying:

56 “Praise be to the Lord, who has given rest to his people Israel just as he promised. Not one word has failed of all the good promises he gave through his servant Moses. 57 May the Lord our God be with us as he was with our ancestors; may he never leave us nor forsake us. 58 May he turn our hearts to him, to walk in obedience to him and keep the commands, decrees and laws he gave our ancestors. 59 And may these words of mine, which I have prayed before the Lord, be near to the Lord our God day and night, that he may uphold the cause of his servant and the cause of his people Israel according to each day’s need, 60 so that all the peoples of the earth may know that the Lord is God and that there is no other. 61 And may your hearts be fully committed to the Lord our God, to live by his decrees and obey his commands, as at this time.”

7)      After Solomon’s prayer and charge to the people, God spoke.  What promises did God give the people?  How did these promises give both hope and sober awareness of their need to follow God closely?  Just read the passages to sober you:

1 Kings 9 New International Version (NIV)

The Lord Appears to Solomon

9 When Solomon had finished building the temple of the Lord and the royal palace, and had achieved all he had desired to do, 2 the Lord appeared to him a second time, as he had appeared to him at Gibeon. 3 The Lord said to him:

“I have heard the prayer and plea you have made before me; I have consecrated this temple, which you have built, by putting my Name there forever. My eyes and my heart will always be there.

4 “As for you, if you walk before me faithfully with integrity of heart and uprightness, as David your father did, and do all I command and observe my decrees and laws, 5 I will establish your royal throne over Israel forever, as I promised David your father when I said, ‘You shall never fail to have a successor on the throne of Israel.’

6 “But if you[a] or your descendants turn away from me and do not observe the commands and decrees I have given you[b] and go off to serve other gods and worship them, 7 then I will cut off Israel from the land I have given them and will reject this temple I have consecrated for my Name. Israel will then become a byword and an object of ridicule among all peoples. 8 This temple will become a heap of rubble. All[c] who pass by will be appalled and will scoff and say, ‘Why has the Lord done such a thing to this land and to this temple?’ 9 People will answer, ‘Because they have forsaken the Lord their God, who brought their ancestors out of Egypt, and have embraced other gods, worshiping and serving them—that is why the Lord brought all this disaster on them.’”

8)      At the end of his life, the wise King Solomon did some very foolish things.  What did he do and what were some of the consequences?  How can we avoid fishing poorly?  “Since this is your attitude and you have not kept my covenant and my decrees, which I commanded you, I will most certainly tear the kingdom away from you and give it to one of your subordinates.”  Solomon’s weakness was women.  He really began trying to please the many women that he had.  This became idolatry and took away Solomon from the Lord even after many warnings from God.  He was such a good leader and still he failed in the end.  He finished poorly.  We can each prevent this.  WE can.  Remember the Proverbs.  Follow these rules.  Pray and have the relationship with God—and listen to what He has to say.

Week 9, Chapter 12: The Trials of a King

Associated Scripture: 2 Samuel 11-12; 18-19; 1 Chronicles 22; 29; Psalms 23; 32; 51

A music video to start:

Though You Slay Me by Shane and Shane https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyUPz6_TciY

Savior Please by Josh Wilson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JiHSDcx_3IE

Discussion Questions:

1)      What were some factors that led to David’s sin with Bathsheba?  Whoa, he had a lustful heart by coveting another man’s wife.  Also, though, in my opinion, maybe Bathsheba should have covered herself a little more…Regardless, David should not have watched her and lusted after her.

2)      Both Saul and David sinned against God, yet how did their responses differ?  What was the result of their responses?  There are huge differences between Saul and David.  David continued to repent to the Lord when he made his mistakes.  Saul indeed loved the Lord but seemed to make choices and rationalize those choices to benefit himself.  David longed for the grace and love of the Lord.

3)      How did David’s sins affect the future of his family?  Greatly.  This is apparent as we read through this chapter of the bible.  Ultimately, we really need to think how our choices affect others.  It does not just affect our single life but can also affect those of our loved ones too. 

4)      David was allowed to plan the temple, but God told him that his son would be the one to actually build it.  How do you think David felt about that?  How did David respond?  David responded with dignity—a normal flesh reaction.  Even though it felt as though it were punishment (and it was), David continued to worship in the Lord.

5)      Do you, like David, give God credit and praise for your successes and accomplishments?  Wow, wouldn't it to be easy to say yes?  I say “wow, I did that” all the time.  But did I do it alone?  No.  Not at all.  It is so easy sometimes to forget how we made accomplishments.  I will say though, now that I have joined this study, I consider the Lord every day in my decisions.  I continue to realize though each day still, that my accomplishments were not my own.  They were accomplished through His Perfect Will.  Thank you, God.  Thank you. 

Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-I1nX28MEQ

Video Discussion:

1)      As chapter 12 of The Story begins, we see David enter into sin and become a domino effect of other sins that followed.  Identified each of David’s sins and how it led to another sinful choice or action in life.  I really feel like we cover most of these in the next question below.  But I really think the intent of this question is to point out how one decision, each of us makes, WILL affect the future and each person your life touches.  Don’t you, like me, experience those close call moments of life.  I feel that is God saying…yep, that just happened.  Realize woman, that I am in control!!!!

2)      David’s sins did not just affect him but others around him.  Note the effects on the following:

a.       Bathsheba?  David coveted her.  The initial result was the death of her husband and the child created by that sin.

b.      Uriah?  Yep, he was murdered.

c.       The prophet Nathan?  David loved him.  Nathan had to be the one to call his friend out.  How hard must that have been?  Imagine you calling your bestie out—how hard that must have been but was much needed. 

d.      The military commander of Joab?  He was a secondary party to MURDER.  He was a really great soldier but he put the sward to Absolom.

e.      Other soldiers under Joab’s command.  Wow, they all had to step back and assist in the killing of David’s son Absolom.

f.        The baby conceived by Bathsheba?  Became sick and died. 

3)      Once Uriah was dead, David seemed to think he had gotten away with his coveting, adultery, lying and murder.  But when Nathan confronted him, David realized that God knew everything.  What are some of the ways we can deceive ourselves into thinking we have covered our tracks and hidden our sins (from ourselves, others, an even God)?  This is something for you to answer.  But, once you try to hide from the truth you will realize how hard it is to maintain the single lie that started it all.  It gets complicated and nearly impossible to keep it up with—don’t’ do it. 

4)      King Saul (when confronted by Samuel the prophet) did not admit his sin, repent and really seek forgiveness…he made excuses.  That is why God rejected him.  How is David’s response to facing the reality of his sinfulness different from Saul’s?  Saul would rationalize his Sin!  Well, I did “this” because of “that.”  David would be confronted and would immediately repent and ask for the Lord’s forgiveness.

5)      God forgave David, but there were still consequences to his sinful actions.  What were some of the consequences David faced immediately and over the long term because of his sinful choices?  Why is it important that we walk in God’s grace but still realize we might face real consequences of our sins?  We have almost talked this to death at this point.  No matter what decision we make without consulting with God first, we must realize that there will be those consequences. 

6)      What do we learn about the holiness and heart of God when we consider Nathan’s interactions with David?  Each of us should pay that role that Nathan did and hold our friends accountable for their actions—if it gets to that point.  Calling a friend on a situation where they may have made an inappropriate decision or response is our duty as Christian women.

7)      If you could have asked David at the end of his life, “What advice and insight would you give me about temptation and sin?”    What might David say to you if you were dabbling in sin?  David might say…STOP!!  One small bad thing is a gateway to a bunch of very bad things.  J

8)      Randy pointed out that David’s life, even with his falls and frailties, still pointed people to God.  How can god use our lives—the good and the bad—to show his presence, love, and grace to the people around us? 

We need to be that model for Christ.  Remember, you may be the only bible others get to see so we need to be the best representation of Christ we can be as women, wives, mothers, friends, children, etc.

Week 8, Chapter 11: From Shepherd to King

First of all, wow, how did I get this far behind.  I just taught Chapter 15.  I apologize for the delay.  I have been crazy busy.  Wait, aren't we all??  My agenda is to get one done per night to get caught up for sure.  I could not make this session.  Please feel free to add as necessary to any of these questions by adding a comment below...I will add to the session.  If you participated in the Session at Michelle's House, please also add to-

Again, forgive... :-)

Week 8, Chapter 11: From Shepherd to King

Associated Scripture: 1 Samuel 16-18; 24; 31; 2 Samuel 6; 22; 1 Chronicles 17; Psalm 59

Discussion Questions:

1.       Why was David chosen to be the next king of Israel?  David was the youngest of his brothers and therefore was the least likely to be chosen as King.  Even David’s father was sure one of his oldest would be offered--  We should never assume we know God’s next choice for us.  We should instead pray for his wisdom and trust in what our future holds.

2.       What obstacles did David face to become the king he was anointed to be?  I can think of two at the moment.  When David was chosen as the next king, even his brothers would not accept it.  They in turn were very jealous.  The very brothers he loved so much now instead loathed him.  They did not value the King he would become.  Another would be the obstacles between Saul and he.  Saul tried so many times to kill David from the jealousy of David’s reign and popularity.

3.       How was David able to face a gain when so many others gave way to fear?  Wow, David had faith in God.  David was so very small compared to the Giant.  Yet, he knew his faith would pull him through to win over the Giant and that exact faith is why God gave him this power.  I can think of all the times, I have felt a problem weighing in on my shoulders but also found that when I turned it over to the Lord, He would pull me through it.  I do NOT think this is a coincidence.

4.       Why did David spare Saul when he had the chance to be free of Saul’s attempts to kill him?  What would you have done?  Amazing story.  Just when you think David finally gets the opportunity to pay Saul forward for all the cruel things and attempts to kill David—David chose to let him live.  He knew that God needed Saul to be King even though he also knew he would be king next.  He trusted in God’s judgment and therefore spared his life.  I love the fact that even Saul knew David could have killed him if he tried.  What would you have done?  This is personal but I think this question is to target each of our own hearts in this way—just because you (or I) feel that I must change a destiny because I feel it is right—I should do just as David did and put my trust in the Lord.  I think we are so accustomed to wanting and answer now and not waiting—but the bible is teaching me that I DO NOT KNOW all the answers because I am not supposed to know them.  I just need to speak to the Lord in Dialogue.  What does that mean?  It means, not only speak to the Lord, but let him speak back.

5.       David had a single goal (that the God of Israel would be glorified) because he had a single love (the God of Israel).  What can you do to cultivate a heart like David’s?  I think I kind of answered this above a little but really we need to have a one-on-one relationship with God.  If we can better our relationship with Him, then we are glorifying God.

Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-JgRqf-ClU

Video Discussion

1.)     In this chapter of The Story, many different people think they have David figured out.  How did each of these people view David when they looked at him?

a.       His father, Jesse:  The smallest of his sons and less mature of them all.  Just a farm boy who watched after sheep.  The youngest. 

b.      The Prophet Samuel?  Samuel thought the Lord would choose Eliab due to his height and appearance.  But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him.  The Lord does not look at the things people look at.  People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

c.       His Brother, Eliab?

d.      King Saul?  He looked at his brother in anger.  He sees him a conceited

e.      Goliath?  He would not believe that this man would attempt to fight him without armor and sticks.  He was offended by him.

2.)    God saw David quite differently from everyone else.  In light of this chapter how did God see David?  God saw David as a very faithful man.  He was beautiful in the heart. 

3.)    This chapter includes two powerful prayers of David: one from Psalm 59 and another from 2 Samuel 22:1 7, 47; Psalm18.  What do you learn about David’s heart from these honest passionate cries to God?  David put all his faith in the Lord.  He constantly praises the Lord in his prayers and continues to tell the Lord that He is his rock and his fortress.  He exalts the Lord from his heart and soul.

4.)    Randy said, “God put David through spiritual boot camp to chisel him and refine him into the kind of man who truly trusted God.”  Tell about a time God send you to spiritual boot camp (or has presently enrolled you).  How did God use this time to refine, strengthen, and grow you?  Our group feels we are constantly put into these situations so that we can grow.  Will you turn to God in this turmoil?  In all the instances we have turned to our Savior Jesus Christ we are delivered from the pains, suffering, decisions, etc. 

5.)    David had to wait fourteen years between being anointed and actually sitting on the throne.  Have you ever had a lengthy wait to receive something you felt God had planned for your life?  What kept you hopeful during the wait?  This is a personal question but think of that time, think of what got you through that wait…and then THANK God for the wait.  It wasn’t time yet.  Mine wasn’t.  But, eventually, I did get what I really wanted and planned. 

6.)    Reading the Story we discover that David had his share of struggles and sins.  But through it all he was a man whose heart sought after God.  What are the things that tend to distract your heart and pull it away from God?  What can we do to keep our hearts focused on God and growing more in love with him?  This is another personal question.  There are so many distractions these days.  Facebook.  Texting.  Work.  The daily routine.  For me, I finally had to work God in.  Yeah, I was lazy.  It takes energy and time to study God’s word—my excuse.  There are ways we can keep our hearts focused on God.  This study is one example….but so is daily prayer.  Even I don’t remember to pray every night. 

7.)    In this sessions DVD segment Randy made a provocative statement:  “God can use our disobedient lives as effectively as he uses or obedient lives in the Lower Story to work out his Upper Story plans.”  Do you agree with that statement?  Give and example from the Bible that supports what Randy says?

8.)    The Story recounts that many of God’s children had long seasons of waiting (often in tough times and sometimes in a desert).  How can God use times of waiting and challenging seasons of life to prepare us for greater things in our future?  Yes, if we wait for OUR time, we will gain these greater things in life.  We all have had “waiting” periods and “challenging seasons of life.”  And there are so many whether it be…wanting to get pregnant, losing a loved one, quitting smoking, cutting ties with bad influences, etc.  They are there.  How do we chose to deal with them?  

Week 7, Chapter 10 Standing Tall, Falling Hard

Week 7, Chapter 10: Standing Tall, Falling Hard

Associated Scripture: 1 Samuel 1-4; 8-13; 15

Discussion Questions:

1.       What do you learn about the prayer from Hannah?  Hannah was a faith driven woman.  A lot of other women may have been very angry.  As the other wife, Peninnah, teased her she chose not to reflect in her behavior and as Peninnah was able to have children, Hannah did not covet her blessing.

2.       How did Samuel show his faith in God?  As a leader, he continued to put his faith in the Lord.  His loyalty was to God, regardless of what the people thought.  He followed God through the small things and big things.  Samuel was one of the greatest judges in history because of this obedience to the Lord.

3.       Why was it wrong for the Israelites to ask for a king?  Simply because God was supposed to be their King.

4.       What factors led to King Saul’s demise?  He made several choices without God’s involvement.  He would then rationalize his decisions.  He should have involved God with each and every decision but instead he would make the decision without the Lord—and this eventually led to his demise.

5.       How did Saul respond when confronted with his sin? How do you respond when confronted with your own shortcomings?  This was already stated above—oops!  But he rationalized his decisions.  I think we all do this from time to time—we want our lives to happen the way we want them to and WHEN we want them to…it is easy to get impatient.  However, we must live our life with the Lord by our side and involve him first when making decisions.

6.       What instances of God’s grace do you see in this chapter?

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yS4TvT-jv3Y

Video Discussion:

1.       First Samuel 1 (The Story pp. 129-131) tells Hannah’s heartbreaking account of barrenness and how her prayer for a child is finally answered.  What strikes you about Hannah’s character and faith?  God can use human weakness to gain glory through him.  God knows we have these faults-from beginning to end and we need to have this faith and put our faith in him.  These verses are symbolic for how we should give our faith to the Lord.  She brought her problem to the Lord and He answered her prayer.

2.       What does Eli teach Samuel about listening to God (1 Samuel 3:1-10; The Story, pp. 131-132)?  What can we learn about communicating with God as we see Samuel’s story unfold?

3.       According to 1 Samuel 8 (The Story, pp. 135-136), how does Samuel feel about the leaders of Israel’s request to give them a king so they can be like all other nations?  How does God feel about it?  God looks for people who are like God- not like everyone else.  Leviticus 20: 26 states: You are to be holy to me because I, the Lord, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be my own.  The Israelites were chosen as the all-powerful nation.  The others saw the other “kings” and thought of them as powerful…when God was the all-powerful king.

4.       How does Samuel’s description of the consequences of having an earthly king instead of a heavenly King parallel to the actions of those who govern in our modern world today?  This is a good point and a great parallel to today’s society.  Earthly rulers appear to get greedy as years go on—

5.       God’s Upper Story plan if for him alone to rule as King over his people.  In the Lower Story, the people insist on having an earthy king as their ruler.  God gives in to their request.  Do you believe God still allows us to have our way (on occasion) even if it is not his perfect will for us?  If so, give an example of what this can look like?  Yes…absolutely.

6.       Saul does not follow God’s instructions, which leads to Samuel telling him that he will lose his throne because God has rejected him as King.  Randy points out that one of Saul’s big mistakes was distorting and misrepresenting God as cruel and greedy rather than showing he is just and holy.  Why is God so concerned about his people giving an accurate portrayal of who he is?  What can we do to present God to the world with greater clarity and accuracy?  We must reflect God’s example.  “You may be the only bible that people ever “read.”  God wants obedience from the heart.

7.       God’s desire is to reveal his presence, power, and plan to the world and thus restore people’s relationship with him.  How do you see God do each of these in this chapter of The Story:

Reveal his presence.  The arc was stolen…and the birth of children reveals his presence.

Display his power:  The arc was the example of his power.

Execute his plan to get us back: This is a repeating theme throughout the bible.  He always gives abilities to be leaders to the underdogs—and shines through them helping them succeed…

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Week 6, Chapter 9: The Faith of a Foreign Woman

Week 6, Chapter 9: The Faith of a Foreign Woman

Associated Scripture: Ruth 1-4

Discussion Questions:

1.       What does Ruth’s story reveal about the love of God? God loves us all!  HE loves those who become an image of his unconditional love.  God’s living presence in a relationship overcomes differences that otherwise create division and disharmony.  Where the world says it is impossible…God says it is possible to his perfect will.

2.       What does Ruth’s story reveal about how God views all people groups?  What does that mean for you?  Acts 10: 35 says “But in every nation whoever fears Him and works righteousness is accepted by Him.”  God works through all people.  He accepts all who worship HIM!!

3.       Both Ruth and Naomi suffered tremendous loss.  Why does a  good and gracious God allow tragedy to come upon those who love him?  God wants us to turn to him.  He can use that tragedy to change your life even more.  Think about the last time you suffered…did you turn to God?  When you did, didn’t you come that much closer to him??

4.       When difficult times come, what causes you to continue to hope in God?  This is for each of you to answer personally.  Take the time to reflect on your time.  For me, there is no other way but to turn to God and continue to have faith in him for the answer to my pain or questions or concerns.  I know that if I hand it to God, even when I do so hesitantly, the answer will come through him. 

5.       Ruth left her home to follow Naomi and to follow God.  How is God asking you to follow him?

6.       In what way do Ruth’s actions and responses challenge you?  Encourage you?

7.       What steps can you take to become a more selfless, loving person?

The last three questions are for each of us to answer internally.  I am completely encouraged by Ruth in this story so long ago.  She was so close to God…even though she did not know the “why” answer to what had just happened in her life, she continued to have faith in the Lord.  It really reminds me of my Memmy.  My great-grandmother Memmy was so very close to God.  Her name was Ruth.  Makes me smile.  She read her bible every night.  I really do not think she ever turned away from the Lord.  I really miss her. 

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrWqEBq5mzA

1.       As you read chapter 9 of The Story, what were some of the losses that Naomi and Ruth faced?  How did each of them respond to these painful experiences?  They both lost the person(s) that they loved dearly.  Naomi lost her husband and her sons.  They, she and Ruth had nothing.  Naomi had no one in the land of Moab.  They had no land or protections.  They had nothing.  Naomi initially was a very bitter person, not knowing why this happened to her..  She does continue to show love and compassion.  Ruth decided to stay with her mother-in-law and Naomi continued to take care of Ruth.  It sure is human to react the way Naomi did.  God is there during such frustrating times though…we must remember to turn to him.

2.       Naomi was a person of faith, but she also questioned God and was deeply honest about her struggles (Ruth 1:19-21; The Story, p. 122).  In what ways did Naomi’s losses impact how she viewed God and his work in her life?  She really felt as though God and punished her for some reason; however, she continued to love the Lord.

3.       Boaz was a man of amazing character and wisdom (Ruth 2-3; The Story, pp. 123-126). What can we learn from Boaz’s interactions with his workers including Ruth?  Boaz was kind.  Boaz’s mom was the outsider too.  Boaz, strong wealthy man in Bethlehem, mother was the prostitute Rahab the Canaanite prostitute that provided coverage for Joshua’s spies!  He was once an outsider too!!  He knew what it felt like to be an outsider and extended a hand to help this outsider!

4.       Throughout Chapter 9 of the Story we get glimpses into Ruth’s character as well.  What are some of the exemplary aspects of her heart, attitudes, and behavior?  How might Ruth be a role model for people today?  Ruth was very courageous.  She was ready to work, and get food!  She took over watching over Naomi.  She chose to be with her mother-in-law and follow her God.  She constantly thought of Naomi.  Ruth consistently remained the same.  She had a great reputation for how she treated all people….and we could follow her example and be the same.   Ruth followed Naomi’s advice and trusted her and trusted God!!

5.       Near the end of Chapter 9 of The Story (Ruth 4: 1-10), Boaz offers another family member the opportunity to pay for and redeem the land of Naomi’s dead husband and his two sons.  When his other family members realize it will cost him a great deal and gain him nothing financially, he declines.  At this point, Boaz pays for all the property and allows the name of Elimelech (Naomi’s husband) to be remembered.  Give examples of things God calls Christians to do that cost us a great deal and do no pay off much (in the life or eyes of the world).  John 15: 18-26.  You will not always be thanks for all the good that you will do!

6.       How did Jesus’ life model service and sacrifice for people who really had nothing with which to pay him back? Jesus did not expect payment in return.  His whole life was about love, sacrifice, and service.

7.       When you think of how Naomi’s life went from Mara (bitter) to Naomi (beautiful), what were the ways God extended grace to this faithful woman?  Who needs you to come alongside of them to remind them that they are loved (or beautiful) and what is one action you can take this week to extend God’s grace to this person?  We can never do enough to do for Him what he did for us.  We can take our talents and use them to express our generosity through these talents!

8.       Read movement 4 of the Story (p.11).  What is the big theme of this movement?  When all hope was lost, God still provided. She continued to be faithful and was rewarded in the end!  Read Matthew 13!!

Week 5, Chapter 8: A Few Good Men and Women

Week 5, Chapter 8: A Few Good Men and Women

Associated Scripture: Judges 2-4; 6-8; 13-16

The past three weeks have been tough...I'll do better with Chapter 10 which is this week.  Let me go and post my very brief notes for Chapter 9 also--they will be brief....I'm sorry....

Discussion Questions:

1.       What does God’s choice of Deborah as judge during this time reveal about God’s view of women?  God believes women are created as equal as men…that women were just as good as doing God’s work as men.  This was during times when women were certainly not treated equally.  Heck—women have always struggled to keep up with man but really—we are just as good if not better;)  Remember God’s original view on women…  Genesis 1:27 “So God created man (both male and female) in his own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them.”

2.       Why does God often use weak and uncertain people like Gideon to do his work?  By using the weakest of people, it proves that you really only need God to get through the hardest of tasks!  God gives these “weak” people and gave them the strength they needed to help bring others to God as well.

3.       If you ever feel uncertain about your gifts and abilities, how could the story of Gideon encourage and strengthen you?  All Gideon needed was his faith in the Lord.  And, that is all you need.  Turn to God.  Ask him to help you.  Allow him into your life. 

4.       What reasons can you give for why the Israelites kept repeating their downward cycle of sin?  Doesn’t it seem like we are in that cycle now too?  The Israelites would be saved…given a little time and they would drift from the Lord and God would have to save them again.  They kept turning to other gods or forgetting what God had saved them from to begin with…I guess it is how we were created. 

5.       What was the root cause of Samson’s fall?  What was the result? The root cause of Samson’s fall was his weakness to the temptation of the flesh. Eventually his lust for women would be his down fall, as Delilah would find out the secret to his strength and his strength would depart from him and ultimately result in his death.

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6.       What are the strongest temptations that you face?  How do you fight such temptations?  We will always have the temptations of the world we live in; yet, we must keep God at the forefront to fight such worldly temptations.

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L0EfQ501j9c

1.       Through The Story we have discovered that God loves to use surprising people to accomplish his will.  As you read about Deborah, Gideon and Samson in this chapter of The Story, how is each of them a surprising choice to be a leader of God?  Deborah was the fourth and ONLY female judge of Isreal.  She gave God all the praise that came her way.  Gideon was a farmer who God made a warrior and a judge.  Samson was born to parents who could NOT have children.  Each of these people were “ordinary” people that were given extraordinary tasks through God.

2.       Contrast how God saw Gideon and how Gideon saw himself (Judges 6:11-16; They Story, pg 108)  How does this breathe hope into our hearts in the moments we feel God could never do great things through us?  Gideon did not see himself as a strong person but God told Gideon he would have the strength he needed to win the war.  God did great things through Gideon.  WE see ourselves, often, as weak.  But God does not see you that way.  Make sure God is with you.  Try to see what your value is through Christ.  You can say yes to God—you can conquer through him.

3.       In the continual cycle that occurs in the time of the Judges, God’s people kept embracing the sins, religion and behaviors of those who lived in the land before they conquered it.  In what ways do Christians today embrace the sin, practices, and culture of our day and end up sinning and feeling distant from God?  How can we identify the temptation to be conformed to the world’s sinful ways to avoid this pitfall?  WE do so much today that is not considered priorities.  Things like…not aligning our lives with God or not knowing the Bible—THE BOOK OF INSTRUCTION.  We constantly fear of offending others with our beliefs via political correctness…If you put God first, your life will align as it should.  We do need to avoid the temptation of falling into the world’s sinful ways—those ways greatly accepted as the norm.

4.       One of the recurring themes in this chapter of The Story is that a new generation would rise up that did not know God and what he had done for his people in the past.  When they forgot, they wandered.  The same tragic thing can happen in our generation.  What practical things can we do in our homes and in the church to help the next generation know and remember what God had done in the past so they will hold on to him in the future?  Really we must continue to have Christ in our daily lives.  After all, Christ is the reason we even exist.  Let’s align our lives with Christ and have that relationship with him that we know we should have.  For me, I need to remember to bring Christ into daily conversation with my children.  Pray often.  Follow his example.  In the church, we can reach in to the church but we must also reach out to others.

5.       There seems to be consequences when we refuse to follow God’s way.  Why do you think we continue to repeat the same sin patterns even though we know the outcome will not be good?  Simple answer really:  we are human.  We were made this way.    God puts these challenges in front of us to bring us closer to him. 

6.       Where would you be today if God had never allowed his discipline to wake you up to the reality of sin and drive you into his arms?  Personal question for each of us but I know I would not have what I have today without Christ being in my life.  God has truly blessed me. 

7.       How did God strengthen Gideon and help him press through his fears as he faced the mighty armies of Midian?  How does God do the same thing today when we feel inadequate and fearful? Judges 8: 9-16.  God stayed with him through the hard times.  Can you imagine not having God to turn to during difficult times??   

8.       Have you faced a situation when the odds were against you and other said, “NO way!” but you held God’s hand and pressed on?  How did the situation turn out and how was God glorified?  What area in your life is God presently trying to get you to the place where you embrace the fact that he is enough?  Personal…

Week 4, Chapter 7: The Battle Begins

Associated Scripture: Joshua 1-2; 6; 8, 10-11; 23-24

Discussion Questions:

1.       How could Joshua be “strong and courageous” in such intimidating situations?  He constantly believed in the Lord.  The Lord gave him strength in impossible situations.  As long as he had Faith, he was given the authority through the Lord to take over any task given to him by God.  Jerimiah 17: 9-10 states God knows your heart.  That is how He can deliver sins and be the punisher.  Joshua 1:3-9 states I will not fail or abandon you.  Romans 8:31 states God is for us.

2.       What do you learn about God for the story of the salvation of Rahab the prostitute?  Rahab believed all the previous miraculous things Israel had done with God in command such as the parting to the Red Sea.  She believed in God’s power.  When the spies had entered her home, she lied for the King and hid the men.  She lied that she had seen them go down the road when they were actually on the roof hidden.  She explained to the spies that since she had hidden them, she would ask that her family members be spared.  The spies promised they would as long as she did not reveal the plan.  Rahab believed that her life would be spared.  In doing so her faith (as well as her family members I’m sure) was made even stronger as the ENTIRE city fell before her!

3.       What do the string of amazing battle victories the people experienced as they entered the land reveal about who is really in charge of history?  It revealed to them that God was in control.  In each of the battles, they were against extreme odds.  God had a plan.  They would rule the land as believers in Christ and take all the others who had other gods.  God was in control.

4.       Why did God order the Israelites to go to war against others?  How was the war justified?  The others had other pagan-like gods or idols.  They were not obeying God as commanded.  To rid the others, God planned for the Israelites to win against the others.  The war was justified through God. 

5.       How did Joshua challenge the people in his final speech?  He challenged all others to follow God’s commandments.  As long as they obeyed God, as he and the Israelites did, and followed God’s commands,  all would be good.  He challenged them as to what WILL happen if they choose to follow the previous sinners.  God again is in control and God is also the punisher.

6.       Why do you think God lavished blessings on Joshua and all the Israelites, who, like Joshua, trusted God? God did this to show them that blessings would happen if they had faith in God and followed his Rules and set an example.  He also shows what can happen if His word is not followed and they choose not to live a life through faith in God.  Once you align your life with God’s word, your life is blessed.

7.       What practical steps can you take to gain a deeper faith in God?  I think we must simply trust in him!  Personal.

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lx-bEDk88xQ

1.       What did God call his people to do as they got ready to enter the Promised Land (Joshua 1:1-11, The Story, pp. 89-91)?  Be strong and courageous.  Study His book of instruction daily.  The Lord and God is with you wherever you go.  Again in Psalms and Jerimiah: Be courageous.  1^st Psalms- Mediate on it day or night and Jeremiah 17:7-Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, and whose hope is the Lord For he shall be like a tree planted by the waters, which spreads out its roots by the river..

2.       The first time spies were sent into the land, twelve of them went.  Only two gave a good report; the other ten were so negative that they convinced the people of Israel the rewards weren’t’ worth the risk.  For decades later, Joshua sent a team of only two into the land.  Randy said, “Committees seldom make courageous decisions.”  Discuss the value of following a couple of bold leaders rather than a committee when it comes to those moments when we need to move forward quickly and with courage.  Sometimes things or people can be a distraction.  Minimize distractions.  Too many chiefs and not enough Indians!!!    Sometimes it is easier to go with the Standard Act of Behavior.  So follow the few leaders that exhibit God’s example.  Serve the Lord with a fertile heart and not a shallow heart.

3.       Just like the people of Israel, we sometimes are fearful of challenges and don’t want to deal with them.  What challenge in your life have you put on the back burner, but you know it is time to face it and deal with it?  How can your group members pray for you, cheer you on, and keep you accountable in this process?  Several examples were given. Michelle wants to quit smoking.  Natalie wants to choose the right people that reflect God’s word, Katie wants help in prayer through a career selection and Haley wants prayer in deciding whether or not to go back to work full time or part time…

4.       How does consistent and faith-filled reading of the Bible (God’s Story) help us remain strong and courageous as we swim upstream against the currents of this world?  Perspective, Strength and Wisdom!  There always seems to be an underdog with the battles in the bible.  God gives us these instructions to live. Michelle:  During her last study leader of Captivating, she really did not feel she could lead a bible study.  God told her she would--  And she got through it—with constant prayer and faith in the Lord!!!

5.       Joshua read the words of God’s story to all the people: children, teens and the adults.  What are ways we can help the children and young people in our lives grow in their knowledge of and love for the Bible?  How can this be done in both our homes and churches?  The best way to do this is be a model of Christ.  They will see your model of a Christ-like citizen and hopefully learn by example.  Also, we can each talk about God.  Pray with them and teach them how to pray.  We need to let our children (as well as any child) know how important, loved and accepted they are if they choose to lead their life in faith.

6.       Chapter 7 of The Story teaches us that we should always talk with God to make sure he is going before us and that we are not heading off on our own.  Why is it so important to pray, listen to God and follow his leading when we make life decisions?  What are some of the possible consequences if we forget to do this?  What area of your life do you need to commit to more prayer and listening?  We need to pause, listen, and fellowship with the Lord PRIOR to following our decisions!  The Lord will clear your path.  The second part of that question is for you to answer.

7.       Baptism is an outward sign of our identification with God.  What is the meaning of baptism and why is this public celebration so important and powerful?  Share your stories.  The meaning of baptism is that you are being born again as a Christian.  You are publically professing to others that you choose to live a Christian path.  For me, whenever I see a baptism, I remember my commitment to the Lord as well.  You feel uplifted in that moment. 

8.  When Christians live in a world that flows so strongly against the desires and heart of God, we often are identified as believers simply by the way we live.  Name some actions and attitudes that show the world we are followers of Jesus.  Michelle gave her example of reaching out to help someone at Wednesday night service.  This woman had lost her partner and had not been comforted in a very long time.  She told the lady she would pray for a her and keep her in her thoughts and prayers.  This was the first time Michelle had extended herself to someone that really was a complete stranger.  She will continue that relationship and provide that need.  Her children will witness that also—which is a wonderful way to show her love for God and set that example for her children.  For me, participating in prayer is a way we are identified, rather it be alone at a restaurant at lunch or even participation in group settings.  Often times while in state government we are told to separate Church and State.  Many state meetings still do open in prayer.  I participate.  

Week 3, Chapter 6: Wandering

Associated Scripture includes Numbers 10-14; 20-21; 25; 27; Deuteronomy 1-2; 4; 6; 8-9; 29-32; 34

Wandering

1.       What do you think was the root cause of most of the Israelites’ problems? Why?

Their lack of faith for the Lord.  There were so many struggles while in that desert.  Food.  Water.  But did they not remember where they just were??  -as Slaves.  Even though it seemed like an awful place; they forgot they God brought them there to make their lives better. Is this something that we do today as well? Do we complain in the midst of all the blessings we receive? Even in the times of trial are we patient? Do we sound like the Israelite’s?

2.       How did God respond to the people’s lack of faith?  With patience. He reminded them continuously of what He did for them in Egypt. He reminded them of how blessed they were. He also showed those whose hearts were not true the power of His wrath. When they complained of hardship—he sent a fire to consume them.  When they complained of not having enough meat to eat—he gave them so much meat that they would become sick. 

3.       Why is God so radically opposed to sin?  Because God is just that, God.  He is holy.  He is perfect. How could he not be opposed to evil?

4.       What do you learn from Moses’ leadership throughout this difficult period?  How did he display frustration and faith?  Moses was chosen as a Leader because God knew he could be a Leader.  Whenever Moses faced a difficult challenge, he did just as he should—he pleaded and prayed with God.  He was the prime example of what all others should do.  Think about that for a moment…as a Leader, you must be that prime example.  Moses was just that.  He kept his faith.  He believed the Lord would see him through and Yes, God did.

We also must see the frustration that Moses exhibited. While he was sent as the intermediary between God and the people, he failed to be perfect. He was not allowed to enter the Promised Land because of his disobedience. Again man fails the Lord. We can look at this in two separate lights. First, Moses continued to serve the Lord despite his own failings as a leader. He found favor with God by walking faithfully. Second, we see again the need for the Messiah. Moses was unable to lead these people away from sin against God. He was unable to achieve perfection even though he loved God with all of his heart.

5.       Have you ever felt as if you were “wandering in the wilderness”—spiritually or emotionally?  Explain.  This is a personal question.  But, I think we have all felt this way at one time or another.  Sometimes in a period of the unknown of what is to become, I feel this way.  What do I do Lord?  I am so worried?  How should I prepare for the worse?  Yet, keep that constant contact with Him, rest in His presence, cry out to Him for help and you will find he is there go guide you.

6.       How can having faith in what God has promised help you in difficult times?  Again personal.  We must just do that though.  So many times, I have felt like I was in control of everything.  Then God made me a parent.  HE stated to me, “You will guide this person.”  Wow, I felt like a blind man in the dark trying to find my toothbrush.  Do you know what I mean??  I want so badly to be the very best parent, wife, boss, employee, I can be. But ultimately I just need to pray to HIM to be lead the way.  Just when I think I am in control, I am reminded that I am not.  And then I pray to Him for understanding, patience, courage, and the will to get through it. Lay the need for self-reliance at the foot of the cross. Ask God to show you His perfect way. The lord’s prayer states “Thy will be done”, as his will is perfect why would you pray any other way?

Video Discussion

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE1iDozGMek

1.       Describe some of the ways that God might help us recalculate our life direction and get back on track when we are wandering?  A lot of these are personal.  I really feel though that God puts road blocks up when you less expect it to get you back on track.   Some people hit their “rock bottom” to be reminded to turn to the creator. The one who sent his only son to die for you.  Sometimes, just sometimes, you realize that everything truly happens for a reason.  Right??

2.       All through this chapter of The Story God disciplines the people (sometimes quite strongly) to get them back on course.  What are the values of being disciplined by one who loves us and wants the best for us?  You understand and know that His correction comes from a place of love.  I know that if my parents had not disciplined me, I would not be the woman I am today.  My parents taught me how to be trust worthy, respected, dependable, etc.  They made me who I am.  I am so sad for those who do not have the parents that I did.  However, if I think about that…and the fact that God has a plan for EVERYONE, then I should not feel sad.

3.       Randy mentioned that there were no less than ten outbreaks of “juvenile behavior” by the people of Israel during their desert wanderings.  How can Christians today be like this—complaining, grumbling, and rebelling against God’s leading and the plan? 

Give an example of how you can fall into this pattern if you are not careful.   Wow, I’m about to get personal here.  But, I have this acquaintance who may be just that.  This person never seems happy.  Have you ever noticed that negativity that can consume you.  You are fine until you go near that person?  I even know one who no matter what I do, I still have a hard time smiling when with them.  It is so very easy for this to happen if you hang out with non-Christians.  Their actions can affect yours.

4.       Ten of the men who spied out the land let their minds and eyes focus on the obstacles (Numbers 13:26-33).  What are ways we can be frozen by fear and fixate on the obstacles rather than the God who can help us overcome them?

 This can be a call to leadership, parenthood, marriage, being single, starting a new job, even getting involved in church. Isn’t that easy sometimes?  To come up with excuses not to participate, of reasons to fear, to doubt? Rather than fixating on our fears, we should go to God and ask him for help! Trust that the God of Jacob can still move those mountains.

5.       How have you seen the sins of one generation poison and damage those who came after them?  And conversely, how have you seen good choices and spiritual maturity be passed on as a blessing to the next generation?  I’m going to pull one that was brought to my attention more recently.  I was soon brought before a situation during a yearlong commitment that there was a generation difference between attendees.  You see, I had committed to a yearlong Leadership school by UGA’s school of Public Health (go Dawgs!!)  This Academy was tough.  The professors mad me bear my soul with strangers!!!  After our third session, we had a guest professor for the half day(she was very well accredited as it relates to social racism) and she was giving a Leadership Presentation with that revolved around noose cases by major corporations.  The older half of the “students” who were black were in total support with what was being said.  But the younger generation was almost appalled at what was being said.  My generation of folks, as I could tell, was ready to move forward with racism.  It is time to move past this.  Let’s remember but not dwell on the fact that this happened.  Let’s know but only to empower…not to dwell.  In that moment, many of my colleagues felt so very defeated.  Were we white?  Yes.  What did we notice?  That the black “students” of our own generation seemed to bond with this professor.  None of them seemed taken-aback by what was presented.  I will forever let this be a memory in my mind.  The fact that even though we all age—some things stay damaged.  Can we all NOT move forward with that hatred to only feel more loved as a human race??    I felt my generation was ready for this.  We even spoke of this in after-hours…that is how much it touched each of us.  How have I seen a generation maturity be passed on?  Okay, this is personal too but it would have to be my Granny-Buff.  She is the older generation who I want to be….she is nonjudgmental, and the reflection of a Christian that I strive to be.  I will never forget the time she visited my house in Gray.  They saw our Carboys that we use to brew beer.  Rather than preach to me—she asked me what it was and just smiled.  I remember Jerime asking PawPaw if he wanted to try a homebrew and PawPaw Buff saying—“no, I don’t recon I could handle that.”  How sweet????  They could have told us how un-Christian it was to brew—but I think deep down they knew our heart.  Instead, they are there to guide and love us--

6.       What is one way you are seeking to pass on a healthy and positive legacy to the next generation?  Personal …  Michelle:  So happy that her daughter just accepted Jesus into her life and she hopes her daughter sees Christ in her in her everyday life.  That is the Mom she strives to be.

7.       Randy talked about the vision God has for his children to be responsive to his leading.  When God says to go left or right, we turn and go.  When he says stop, we hit the brakes.  What kinds of things can get in the way of us responding to God’s clear direction?  I think it is so easy to want to take a detour when God has our path set before us.  When we take that detour and it doesn’t work out, God is there to help us get back on track.  Recalculating J

8.       What will help us hear and respond more quickly when the Lord is seeking to lead us?  What is one area of your life where you would like to be more responsive to God’s leading and how can your group members support you in this?  For all of those who love God just remember this…God is able to turn things around!  He will turn them around into something good.

9.       Read Movement 1 of The Story.  How have you experienced God pursuing you and seeking to build a strong relationship with you?  Movement 1 states this: In the upper story, God creates the Lower Story.  His vision is to come down and be with us in a beautiful garden. The first two people reject God’s vision and are escorted from paradise.  Their decision introduces sin into the human race and keeps us from community from God.  At this moment God gives a promise and launches a plan to get us back.  The rest of the Bible is God’s Story of how he kept that promise and made it possible for us to enter a loving relationship with him.  This is almost like dejavu!  He does just as is described in Movement 1.  He comes back down to worship with them in an attempt to enter that loving relationship.  He is there for us!!!  Always!